Bravery.

They both decided to wait to get married.
It's one of the smartest things they've done.
They don't have a new date yet.

They want to wait till he goes to boot camp for the ROTC.
They want to wait till they both have jobs.
They want to wait till they are better prepared.

It's perfectly ok. More than ok.
It's so much better now then in 2-3 weeks (like after the invitations are sent OR the flowers are paid for OR after anything else is paid for---we will only loose $50---which is much better than what it could have been).

She was very calm last night.
I'm much calmer than I have been in the last 6 months.

Let life go on!